Showing Love...Unconditionally

Just a few weeks ago, the Hallmark holiday of love passed us by. But while Valentine's Day can be a great reminder to show/give love to those important to you, that shouldn't stop you from doing these things daily. Don't wait for a stop on the calendar to remind those who are engrossed in your life that you care for and appreciate them. Having people who truly care for you is rare, and should be the most cherished gift on this planet. Time, attention, and love are far more precious than a monetary present, and you don't have to break the bank to show appreciation for those you care about. Here are a few simple ways to show love to the important people in your life.

1. The Friendship Sense

Everyone should be lucky enough to have at least one of these kinds of people in their lives. The person who can just tell when things are "off". When you seem down, your phone suddenly lights up with a "hey, you seem different today, what's up?". You've built such a rapport with some people, that they intrinsically know when things are amiss. People are often too proud to reach out when things aren't going their way, or they feel like a burden if they start to complain too much, because they don't want to bring you down. So if someone's text patterns are off, their energy seems low, or they've just been through a trauma, reach out and remind them that you're there. Don't push in case they need space, but just remind them that you love them and are there if they need anything. Simply being present is one of the deepest and most appreciated forms of love you can show.

2. Random Check-Ins

Sometimes, a mundane day can be instantly uplifted when you hear from someone who's dear to you. A simple "how have you been?" or a random meme tag can spread a smile across someone's face. These things take almost no effort, but they can mean the world to the recipient.

3. "Thinking Of You" Gifts

Much like number 2 on our list, these little thoughts go a long way. These gifts don't need to be a filet mignon or a diamond necklace, they just need to encompass the right amount of mind and heart. If you're out at the store and you see something that reminds you of a loved one, pick it up (if you have the money). Whether it's a movie you saw together, a silly stuffed version of their favorite animal, or the newest work of their favorite author, it shows personal effort and conscious thought. It awakens charming memories and will make both parties of the relationship grow in fondness.

4. Sacrificial Meet-Ups

Life, all too often, gets in the way. We keep saying we need to hang out with people, but one thing or another prevents it from happening. Actively setting dates to hang out (and KEEPING those dates) is an important part of our relationships and our sanity. No matter how tired we are, sometimes cleaning the house or sleeping that extra hour can be put off in favor of bonding. Whether it's a small escape out for coffee or wine, or calling your loved one with an abrupt "I know you've been sad, turn off the TV. We're going out, I'll pick you up in a half hour", these moments become etched in our minds as far more important than the things we put them off for. Even if this happens for just one hour per week, it'll make your friendships stronger and your stress dampen.

Hopefully these quick tips have helped you recall some dear people in your lives, and light a fire under you to show unconditional love to some people you may not see as much as you like. These things don't take much time or money, but after all, love is the reason we're all here. Stay blessed everyone. Until next time, love yourselves, and each other.

-Jason Burke